The ruling planet of Arians is Mars, the planet of power and enormous personal strength. It kindles their passion and romantic moods. Intimacy and sexual impulses are high but very much short-lived. Aries lover has no patience and sensitivity and this may be the reason for the most of the relationships to turn sour. They are blessed with optimism and enthusiasm that keeps the fire in them burning and igniting their lover as well. Aries lover is burning with sexual energy and likes to be in charge. They are boldly passionate and willing to take risks for their love.

Being a cardinal sign there is no shyness here. They step into a situation and dominate it...even sexually. This is the female who wants what she wants when she wants it. They don't like to be told "honey not here...my parents are eating in the next room..."or "can't you wait till we get out of the car." Their ruling planet Mars can't wait for anything.

This is the guy who walks right up to you at a club... and somehow you find yourself leaving with him. He talks fast and by the way does everything FAST! Aries men are the ultimate hunter-pursuers! But, wait, if you turn the tables around and start calling them and start pursuing them... they'll run away scared! That's a total turn off for an Aries Male. Even in the bedroom if you get a little frisky on him, he may go limp pretty quickly. They really don't like to be pursued.

Erogenous Zone: The face and Head!

His favorite Bedtime Fantasy: Meeting someone for the first time and scoring! Already together? Fulfill his fantasy anyways. Meet him at your favorite club, pretend you don't know him and let him score!